Friday, September 17, 2010

A Fun Friday Family Field Trip

Jon had today off work because they are getting a new computer server at his office. So we decided to head out to Lynd's Fruit Farm to pick apples. This was a first-time adventure for all of us. It was great!

We picked Jonagold apples. They are very delicious! We have tons of them.... so come on over and get a few if you're local. ;)

Here are some pictures ---

Ray spotted a bird nest in the tree in the following picture. Can you see it?








After we picked apples, we headed over to a play area where they have a corn maze, a barrel train, and a straw maze and sand pit for the little ones. We parked right in front of a big hill with paths for climbing and a tube for crawling through. Adam exclaimed, "Now THIS is my kind of thing!" Both boys had a blast climbing up and down as well as playing in the straw maze and sand area. There were even flecks of gold to find in the sand. They were blissfully happy and very dirty by the time we headed home.



Tuesday, September 14, 2010

I Can Do This!

I can do this!
I can do this.
Can I do this?
What am I doing?
Aggghhhhh!!!!!

Those of you who get blog envy... and who wonder if you're doing things as well as other families.... will LOVE this post.

I'm hitting a wall this week. I do believe that we are called to homeschool our boys. I know I have the skills to do it. It's fun and interesting and exciting.... AND HARD!

I knew it would be challenging, but I'm really feeling that as we are getting settled into the rhythm of the school year. The newness is wearing off for the boys. We've had lots of whining and frustration.

I'm wondering if my expectations are too high or if I haven't expected enough of the boys and now we are all paying the consequences. I am trying to be with them where they are and lovingly teach them and challenge them. I am trying not to let my expectations and worries and frustrations take hold of me and affect them.

I'm trying to find a rhythm and balance to our days. I'm trying to teach the boys that there are times for free play and there are times for learning and work... that sometimes we need to use self-control and do things we don't really want to do. This has been painful for them and it makes me worry that I'm squashing their love for learning. I am trying to make it hands-on and adventurous and fun.... but sometimes they just need to sit down and listen and complete a task that they don't want to do. They are quite resistant to that.

We are at a crossroads and I want to handle this transition well. I want to help the boys embrace some "big boy" responsibilities in a healthy and happy way. I fear we've coddled them too much. We're trying some new discipline/motivation plans and hoping to see some good results and some happier boys (and parents).

This whole parenting thing - not just homeschooling - is so very humbling and challenging. But it is my monastery. This is the place, the community, where I am learning holiness and practicing the virtues. God has brought me here and gifted me with a loving husband and amazing children.... and all of the laundry, dishes, dirt, whining, worrying, and crying that go with it. Thank you God for all of that.... for all of these opportunities to learn patience, perseverance, humility, and selfless love. Thank you too for all of the laughter, joy, hugs, smiles, dandelion bouquets, love notes, and surprises that go along with it. Thank you mostly for your faithful presence through it all.... for your patience with me when I am not patient with them. Help me, Lord, to grow in love.... to serve you by serving them. I lay my worries at the foot of your cross. I place all my efforts under your guidance. I know you will shape, teach, and form all of us each day if we place our trust in you. Amen.

Last night Jon and I went to a parent meeting for a Montessori / Catechesis of the Good Shepherd class the boys will be attending. One of the moms spoke about some work the older children will doing. She mentioned Hammurabi and Jon and I both cracked up. I felt a fleeting second of panic... (Who is Hammurabi? Was I absent that day? HOW WILL I EVER TEACH ALL THAT IF I AM STRESSED OUT ABOUT KINDERGARTEN?!?!?!?) But then I really felt God laughing with us. I felt that He was patting me on the shoulder and telling me that it's ok... that He will be there to help me when we get there.... that I will have the awesome opportunity to learn what I missed the first time. My initial panic gave way to awe and excitement about all of the possibilities... about the wonderful methods and materials that the boys are (and will be) using to learn. It's so different from the way I learned in school. It's going to be great.

I can't do this...not my way and not on my own.
God CAN do this and is doing this.
With God first.... hand-in-hand with Jon.... with the support and help of family and friends.... with awesome resources and opportunities....
I CAN DO THIS!
I am doing this.
Amen.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Celebrating the Blessed Mother's Birthday

We enjoyed celebrating the Blessed Mother's Birthday this past week. Her birthday is celebrated on September 8th. Hers is one of only three birthdays celebrated by the church. (Jesus and John the Baptist are the others.)

We gathered on Friday with our Little Saints Club to celebrate. We started with prayer and then passed around a big wrapped box that was topped with lots of bows. Everyone got to take a bow and then we unwrapped the gift and found one of the greatest gifts that God has given us --- Mary (a statue and a sticker for everyone).

We talked about Mary and what she must have been like as a little girl. We talked about the ways we want to be like Mary. Then each family made a Mary poster to take home.

Somehow I didn't get a picture of a finished poster, but the idea was this: We glued on letters to spell out Mary. We either colored a picture of Mary or chose a printed image of her to glue on as well. Then we made a garden scene with grass at the bottom. We had lots of cut out roses to add to Mary's garden. We glued a few on, but took the rest home in baggies. The idea is that families will add roses to their garden each time they pray a prayer/devotion to Mary. By the time we reach the Feast of the Holy Rosary (October 7th), we will have beautiful gardens in bloom in honor of our Blessed Mother.

Here's a picture of Ray working on our poster:
Just to keep things real.... here's a picture of what Adam was doing during this process:

Of course there were snacks involved: blue and white cupcakes and blueberries.

We also decorated coloring sheets of Saints Anne and Joachim, Mary's parents and Jesus' grandparents. We prayed for our grandparents and talked about ways to celebrate Grandparents' Day (today).
On Wednesday, Mary's actual birthday, we had dinner at my sister's house. My mom came too. We brought a special dessert --- blue jello (the boys' choice!). We sang Happy Birthday to Mary.


Here's a much more "angelic" shot of Adam.... celebrating Mary in his own way.... eating a treat!

Mary, Mother of God, Queen of the Saints, pray for us.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Labor Day Weekend Fun!

We made a trip up to Michigan to visit Jon's family over Labor Day weekend. We had a nice time visiting and hanging out at Grandma's. Jon and Ray did a lot of yardwork, trimming trees and thinning out bushes, etc. The weather was delightfully cool and we worked and learned a lot in the yard.

Here are some pictures of a few of our scientific discoveries:




(We found tons of these red and black beetles.... need to try to identify them in our nature books.)

Before heading home on Monday, we spent several hours at Crossroads Village and Huckleberry Railroad in Flint. (http://www.geneseecountyparks.org/crossroadsvillage.htm) It was a wonderful field trip for us. We learned what life was like in Michigan 100 years ago.

Here's Adam in the "Doctor's Office" trying out an old wheelchair:
Ray especially loved observing and operating the model train display:

We took a 40 minute ride on a beautifully-restored train!


The boys were fascinated by the blacksmith.


It turns out that we visited the village on a special day sponsored by the United Auto Workers Union. In addition to reduced admission rates and a really cheap and yummy picnic lunch, we were fortunate to take part in several special activities: remote-control race cars, inflatables, a parade, and ice cream treats! What a fun surprise!






Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Some End-Of-Summer Adventures

The first week of school has been successful and fun. The boys have been excited to learn and have been working hard on all of our projects and activities. We've been doing some things every day (circle time, music, math, writing, stories) and gradually adding in other components of our homeschool. We are still in the process of getting into a real routine. Co-ops are yet to start. It's still summer.

It feels like we have feet in both worlds --- beginning the rigor and structure of school, yet still enjoying summer fun and adventures. I guess that's one of the real advantages of homeschooling. We have a flexibility that allows us to ease into a full schedule and to take advantage of good weather and other opportunities for learning and fun. I don't want to get locked into a routine that feels difficult and burdensome for the boys (or for me), especially at this young age. But the perfectionist in me sees all the plans I have and everything I want them to learn. I have been trying to find some balance and trying to have a wholistic view of learning. I know that the boys learn just as much from our various adventures as they do from the books we read and work in at our school table. I have been making a concerted effort to help them reflect critically on their experiences and record them through narrations and drawings. We are keeping a binder with their reflections and observations. (More on that in another post.)

Here are some snapshots from our week:

We read Ten Apples Up On Top by Dr. Seuss. We practiced balancing things on our heads and we made fun pattern apple crafts.

Last week we had a few days of AWESOME weather --- neither hot nor humid. We simply had to break away for an afternoon at the zoo with our friends and my mom. Jon even took the afternoon off and joined us! It was great fun.Here's Ray face-to-face with a (sting)Ray.On Sunday we enjoyed a picnic at a local park with some other Pray and Play families. It was a nice relaxing evening. The children really enjoyed the playground, especially the sand area.The boys tried their luck at fishing. Adam didn't want his picture taken (again), but I just had to try to get a shot of his face. He looked like he had been at war in a jungle or something. He plays so hard and sweats so profusely! At bedtime, after a serious scrubbing in the bathtub, I asked him if he had fun getting so dirty at the park. He replied, "Yes Mommy, that's one of my talents."
This afternoon we went creeking with some of our homeschool friends. It was such a simple, fun, hands-on, natural learning experience. Three families, nine children, lots of exploration and discovery.

The boys had a blast trying to throw rocks into this pipe and onto the ledge underneath it.
We found lots and lots of buckeyes, some minnows, some crawfish (?), one snake (!), and many interesting rocks and shells.

It was a wet and wild afternoon!When we came home we studied the various nuts, rocks, shells, and leaves that we brought home with us. We wrote notes and drew sketches for our nature journals. I love teaching and learning this way!