Socialization

One of the main arguments many people give against homeschooling is about socialization. As Jon and I have thought, discussed, studied, prayed and discerned about our decision to homeschool, the socialization factor has been significant. Yes, we do want our children to be functioning, social, upstanding members of society. Yes, we want them to learn to behave appropriately, courteously, and morally. We feel that for our family those things will best be taught at home, through the Church, in the community, through sports programs and classes, and through various activities with other homeschool families rather than in a traditional classroom setting. Obviously this is not true for every family and we do not judge or look down on families who choose traditional schooling. There are definitely pros and cons to each different educational model. Interestingly, some homeschool families cite socialization as a primary reason FOR homeschooling. I could discuss that at length with anyone who is interested, but I'll refrain from pontificating here.

There is no way I could homeschool our boys if that meant sitting at home with them all day every day. Yes, there will be much time sitting in our little school room reading, writing, counting, and studying. But, fortunately, there are SO MANY wonderful opportunities for us to be with other families for learning, praying, playing, and celebrating. We are so blessed to be part of an awesome group of Catholic homeschooling families.

Today our group had an end-of-the-year picnic. We met at a local park and shared a pot-luck lunch. Each family got up and talked about the accomplishments their children have made during this academic year and the children received a small treat. Then one of the dads (who is an elementary school gym teacher) led the children in field games while the moms had a chance to visit with one another. It was a wonderful afternoon!

We tried to get a group shot of all the children, but it was quite a challenge! Notice Adam and his friend Ryan way over to the right, in their own world. (Ray is on the far left.)



We tried to squeeze even more children into the picture and get a better group shot. By the time that happened, check out where Adam and Ryan were..... REALLY in their own little world, where they pretended to be pigs and roll in the ONE puddle of mud that was in the whole park!



And here are some of the greatest moms I've ever met! (This group was much easier to photograph, although many of the moms boycotted the picture, not wanting to be photographed at the end of a long day at the park I guess.)



Thank you, God, for the awesome gift of friends with whom we walk on our journey to you! May we build one another up, sharing our love for you with one another and with all whom we meet each day. May we model for one another, for our children, and for others what true Christian community is meant to be. May we recognize you at work among us, binding our hearts together and empowering us to grow in virtue and zeal. Amen.